Sweet Sixteen

Yesterday, our sweet Cole turned 16...weeks that is. It's kind of funny when you start keeping track of how old your baby is, you use weeks. That is until you tire of having to keep track of how many Saturdays have actually passed since giving birth. And technically, Cole is 4 months old according to the mathematics of 4 weeks= 1 month. But if we look at his birthdate of April 21, wouldn't that mean he won't be 4 months old until the 21st of August? Man, this age thing can really get your head spinning. And quite frankly I don't think I'll be able to continue to keep track of his age in weeks after this month. Too much thinking required and I think it might be a little strange to keep referring to his age in weeks all the way til he is a year old. Which incidentally, by the time April 21, 2013 rolls around, he will actually be starting his 53rd week. On that note, here are a few highlights:

In the past 16 weeks ( in no particular order):

1. Cole has rolled over from his tummy to his back- but not the other way yet. So poor little guy looks like a little turtle trying to flip back over.

2. Mommy and Daddy have finally been able to sleep in the same bed at the same time. Thank goodness for the Swaddleme.



3. Cole has been to 2 wedding receptions, 2 graduation parties, 1 baby shower as the guest of honor and 1 as a guest , numerous trips to Trader Joe's, 2 trips to M town and has ONLY had 2 meltdowns as of this writing. I do realize that after making this list, he will probably have a meltdown at the next wedding we go to. ( sorry N & J ! )

4. Greg and I have become "those" parents- you know, the ones who refer to themselves as mommy and daddy, talking about the baby at least twice in conversations,always talking about bowel movements ( I always kind of did that before the baby, but now it's a bit more acceptable!) and using a BOB jogger.

5. If we weren't morning people before, we are now. And who wouldn't be after seeing this face?

6. Diapers, diapers and more diapers. Nuff said.

7. Party island isn't scary anymore, it is a fun little toy activity center that Cole absolutely loves and can now maneuver on his own!

Lastly, 16 weeks means that I have to go back to work next week. I am nervous and excited but that is for another entry.

Happy Sweet Sixteen Baby!

*Note: When i started this post, it was actually August 12th. As you can see, 3 days later it was finished. That's the life of a person with a baby!

Ceiling fans

Our little guy is in love with ceiling fans. Actually, he is in love with one in particular. The one in our dining room is a brilliant blue and is constantly on ( due to the fact that we live in an old house that gets way too hot in the summer). Who knew that this would be the cheapest way to entertain a baby. His face just lights up when he looks at this fan. I have considered naming it just so he could consider it his playmate. Any suggestions?

Top Ten

I have decided that it might be fun ( at least to me) to do a "Top Ten" list every week. If not for my own entertainment, then at least to make me write at least one blog entry every week.  I am also a huge fan of list making, so this definitely helps me keep my thoughts a little organized!

With that being said, here is the inaugural Top Ten:

Top Ten:
Things that they don't tell you before you leave the hospital with a newborn

10. You WILL be woken up every 2 hours in order to feed your otherwise cute but loud newborn. So   much for thinking babies sleep all the time.

9. Diaper changes are SOOOO easy. Just make sure that if you have a boy, you have a "wee wee" guard and refrain from opening your mouth.

8. If you love laundry, you will REALLY love laundry now that you have a baby. Those cute little onesies that your friends so lovingly made you? Yup, you'll be able to use all of them...and then do laundry on day 3 because said onesies have been spit on, or pooped on...you get the idea.

7. Milk? I really appreciate the cow now. All that work and then you gotta do it again in 2 hours? Sheesh- thank you Bessie for the hard work. At least we  get cheese out of it.

6. Babies don't sleep in their cute little cradle you so painstakingly picked out.  It is the retail industry's way of getting you to spend more money on everything adorable for your baby. And the hormones that were raging through your prego body are to blame. Where does said baby sleep? On to number 5:

5. You will not sleep with your partner in the same bed, let alone the same room for at least 6 weeks. Or until you finally succumb to the magic that is the SwaddleMe. If you love your partner ( like I love mine) you will buy this sleep apparatus for your newborn baby and for every friend that has a baby on the way. Think straightjacket for babies. Heavenly!!

4. The hormonal swings you had while pregnant will just magically disappear the moment you give birth. Yup- so not true. You will find yourself crying for joy and sadness at the littlest things. Let me just say that although it is a given that you will cry when watching ANYTHING on Lifetime, you should not be crying when Toddlers and Tiaras comes on. Well, I guess that's debatable.

3. Did I mention the laundry? Yeah, cloth diapers were a good idea...

2. Babies are hungry a lot. Did I mention that one, too? Breakfast, mid- morning snack, lunch, mid afternoon snack, just because I am a baby snack, dinner...you get the gist.

1. There are books and books out there written by people who are professionals, parents and even non parents giving you advice on how to raise your child. Sure, read them, but make parenting your own thing.

 If you can wash your hands, provide food and of course lots of love, I think you'll make it. And your baby will, too. At least that's what we are doing.